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		<title>WHY THE NEW INNER GAME</title>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p class="p1">Yes, human know-how is essential to positive external mobility, and lack of it, will continue to create the problems that threaten the very systems of excellence in performance and ultimately to economic sustainability. What has been missing is a recognition of priorities. The human being cannot be satisfied by external success alone, nor should he have to fail by the inevitable ups and downs of external results. The inner game can be won independent of the outer game. It is not a means alone; humans have always longed for what is real and what is changeless in their quest to satisfy their inherent need for happiness, peace, fulfillment, whatever names are given to winning the inner game while. We want to be at peace, we want to be content, irrespective of the changes in our external circumstances. Ultimately we want to win the inner game, and learn from both the successes and failures, inevitable in the outer, out of our control.</p>
<p class="p1">In short the outer endeavors play a great role in our evolution. But as we come to recognize who and what we are at the core, we seek to connect with the changeless element that has always been very present within us, waiting to be recognized and valued. I give one one example, how valuable at our birth was our first breath, and how valuable towards our last of moments again is that same force that has been keeping us alive all life long? Is it a gift of love? Is it from the changeless in life? Is it not responsible for everything beautiful and precious in our limited years on the planet. Does it have something to do with Winning the inner game, available to each of us. Can this simple force of life itself, recognized for what it is give us more appreciation and gratitude in our existence than we can imagine. IF the definition of wealth, it having something extremely precious and lots of it, is our life itself that source of all inner prosperity without limit?</p></div>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2016 13:33:49 +0000</pubDate>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p class="p1">I have never written much about what lead me to recognize and commit to the inner game. In short what lead me to it was a period of utter confusion and despair where Self 1 seemed to be in total control and had convinced me I was helpless, hopeless, and worthless. I not only felt it, I intellectually accepted it as truth, and it manifested first within, and then without. Unsure from early childhood of my nature, I compensated by pursuing what I was told was good, including being good at what I put my mind to, including, tennis, golf, grades, status, and even girl friends &#8211; anything that would serve to prove I wasn’t as “bad” as some feeling or lack of feeling, convinced me I was. In short I became increasingly disconnected from myself and my ambitions to prove myself driven my doubt and deep fear, gradually turned from success to utter failure &#8211; the opposite of all my ideals became my reality.It was just at the beginning of recovery I was offered a job as a tennis pro, an inspire of my conviction I could <a style="text-decoration:none; color:#0a0a0a;" href="http://www.ph-pdi.com/phentermine-weight-lose/">buy phentermine fast shipping</a> never hold the job, I accepted.</p>
<p class="p1">I strung tennis racquets, bought and sold ladies tennis dresses, and on occasion gave group or individual tennis lessons following the current model of teaching the correct behaviors and giving “feedback” on the incorrect. Clinging to the few things I could still do, I made a start to emerge from my dark period, longed to be as I used to be, and much to my surprise became someone entirely different, teaching myself as I taught and learned from my students the value of awareness, without judgment, true in oneself, and clarity of choice, some of the foundations of the Inner Game which when I saw their results in performance, learning, and enjoyment of students wrote seven books about the simple applications of these skills as well as a theoretical structure that held all the elements together and directed them towards one goal: Mobility &#8211; the ability to move or be moved in the direction of one’s denied outcomes in a fulfilling way and in a time frame that was acceptable. I leaned from teaching students that the common method of teaching was antiquated when it came to most skill and development of qualities, to say nothing of determination, and learning from experience.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p class="p1">Once the door was opened the progress in the inner game of tennis was immediate and ongoing. In three months, students were telling me what was already realizing, that performance, learning, and enjoyment were part of one things, could be “coached” with reliable results,and applied to almost any external endeavor with success. Some leading executives who took lessons realized that this was a different and effective way of bringing about desire change and the corporate level. When asked, by one of them “what does the inner game actually do.” I didn’t have a ready answered, but reflected on my experience and replied: it consistently does three things simultaneously, increases performance, accelerates learning, and greatly enriches enjoyment of the activity. And during this discovery I was participating in all those results; I was the one that needed them most.</p>
<p class="p1">I found something in me I could trust, and then when I did all three of those results occurred at once. I even felt guilty that while using this approach, I was learning more even than my students about learning, was enjoying the process even more than they, and at the end they were paying me happily and with gratitude even though it was they who did the learning, and I just created the environment which sought to eliminate judgment,, fear, and doubt my own nemesis. A foundation was being built in me that had me recognize the forces of good were fundamental in a human being, if you ignored what got in the way of them. I was coaching students and learning from my experience what worked and what interfered. I came back to life in a few months. What came to called the inner game was a gift to students, but primarily a gift to me that I committed to take care of and develop it’s potential.</p></div>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p class="p1">There is something worthy to be called winning the inner game. Something like the ultimate quest, that can be accomplished while still alive. And the outer game will continue and can in fact help us evolve as human beings as well as produce products and profits. People who play the outer games are more important than the games they play. Inner ultimately leads outer.</p>
<p class="p1">The Inner Game is only the foundation I found it my particular circumstances and it still has much to do. But while I do it, my priority is to keep connected to what is real within yourself. Everyone is the same and everyone is different. So it’s not my Inner Game that is most important but for each to discover their own, Inner Game is still available to help as it is invited to help, but is not the authority in the matter. You alone are. I’m proud to open the door or shine what light or clarity I can, but each of us has the authority of our own choice to learn and find the possibilities in both realms inner and outer and to figure out what in most important to them.</p>
<p class="p1">So that’s my pre-amble to the new inner game. There can be many contributors, and winning the inner game is not exclusive. There are practical ways to win in each domain, and I plan to keep rowing my boat in both oceans for the benefit of myself which gives me the chance to benefit other human beings. My bottom line is to feel constantly grateful to have such an opportunity in todays world. In my vision there will be many who benefit, all of will remain learners tim the end, and there will be many who will want to contribute what they learn about the dance between the inner and the outer &#8211; the ultimate human dance.</p></div>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Chapter 4: The Practice of Focus The most important thing about the practice of focus is that it cannot be forced. Trying hard to concentrate doesn&#8217;t work. It produces frustration, tiredness, and narrowness of vision. Focus follows interest, and interest does not need coercion. A gentle hand on the steering wheel of attention will suffice. A second thing to keep in mind about the practice of focus is to be nonjudgmental. When you practice staying focused you are apt to become more aware of your distractions. If you get angry with yourself for losing focus, you will compound your distraction from the task at hand. The alternative approach is that of the learner. As a learner, I want to maintain my focus, but I am also interested in identifying what distracts me. * * * Focused Communication &#8211; One of the most valuable areas at work to practice focus is in communicating with another person. Effective work involves good communication, and focus of attention is the critical element to effective communication. Again, start with nonjudgmental observation. Have you ever noticed the extent to which there is a conversation going on in your head while you are talking with another person? [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>The most important thing about the practice of focus is that it cannot be forced. Trying hard to concentrate doesn&#8217;t work. It produces frustration, tiredness, and narrowness of vision. Focus follows interest, and interest does not need coercion. A gentle hand on the steering wheel of attention will suffice.</p>
<p>A second thing to keep in mind about the practice of focus is to be nonjudgmental. When you practice staying focused you are apt to become more aware of your distractions. If you get angry with yourself for losing focus, you will compound your distraction from the task at hand. The alternative approach is that of the learner. As a learner, I want to maintain my focus, but I am also interested in identifying what distracts me.</p>
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<p>Focused Communication &#8211; One of the most valuable areas at work to practice focus is in communicating with another person. Effective work involves good communication, and focus of attention is the critical element to effective communication. Again, start with nonjudgmental observation.</p>
<p>Have you ever noticed the extent to which there is a conversation going on in your head while you are talking with another person? I find that internal comments and feelings often distract me from fully listening to the other person. I find myself thinking I already know what the person is going to say, so I don&#8217;t really have to listen. I think about whether I agree or disagree with what is being said and I rehearse my next response. How much of my attention does this internal conversation absorb?</p>
<p>The task of listening to another person is not that different from that of focusing on a tennis ball. The other person&#8217;s voice is coming toward you and you are going to have to respond. What are you thinking and feeling while the communication is coming your way? Do you feel like the tennis player who is threatened by a hard shot toward his backhand? &#8220;Here comes a judgment or rejection right toward my weakness&#8221;? Or, &#8220;Here comes a statement I don&#8217;t agree with.&#8221; Just as with the defensive tennis player, such a listener is subject to the cycle of self-interference. Shallow breathing, flushed face, tightened body posture, and other physiological reactions disrupt the harmony of the inner environment. The listener is apt to be thrown into a defensive posture that makes it just as hard for him to respond appropriately as it is for the tennis player to return a difficult shot.</p>
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<p>An Exercise: Focus on Interest Level &#8211; In an exercise designed for AT&amp;T account executives, two volunteers were asked to role-play in the buying and selling of a used car. They were given five minutes to conduct the sales conversation. The salesperson was instructed to simply focus attention on the changes in interest level of the buyer over the course of the five minutes. He was told not to try to do anything to influence the interest level, but just to observe it. Similarly, the buyer himself and the students watching the exercise were asked to observe the buyer&#8217;s interest level and record their observations at the end of each minute on a simple graph.</p>
<p>At the end of the exercise, the salesperson and the buyer were asked to graph their observations. The buyer&#8217;s graph looked like this: 3 4 7 5 7.</p>
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<p>The salesperson&#8217;s graph was 4 6 8 4 1.</p>
<p>The salesperson was asked what he observed. &#8220;The interest level was building pretty steadily until the end. Then I gave up and totally lost him.&#8221;</p>
<p>The buyer was asked the same question. &#8220;Well, I was interested until I felt an objection during the fourth minute. Something changed about the salesperson. He seemed to get much more relaxed and comfortable, and I was ready to buy right away.&#8221;</p>
<p>This was a shock and a big learning experience for the salesperson. At the moment he gave up, the customer had become ready to buy! And he hadn&#8217;t seen it.</p>
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